I was raised in the Seventh-day Adventist Church.
Jamaican. Canadian. Dutiful. Devoted. I didn’t question much—because I didn’t know I could.

But then I studied philosophy.
And law.
And equity.
And I moved away from home.
And I met people who weren’t like me—people who believed differently, lived differently, loved differently.

And suddenly, I had to confront things I’d once taken for granted.

What started as curiosity became a calling to reevaluate everything:
Not just what the church taught me about drums or sex—but what it taught me about race, power, purity, and God.

I realized that what I had inherited was not just religion.
It was colonization.
It was control.
It was shame.

And so, I began again.

At 37, I’m deeply disappointed in my personal life, and how so much of what I was taught didn’t help me. In fact, they harmed me.
And these realities—along with illness, disappointment, and awakening—have shaped a more honest, raw, and sometimes painful faith.

To me, deconstruction isn’t a rebellion.
It’s a return.
A stripping back of what no longer serves, so something truer can be built.

That’s what Sanctuw(e)ary is.
Not a destination.
Not a doctrine.
But a soft place to land. A place to start again.

🌿 Sanctuw(e)ary: A Soft Space to Unravel and Rebuild

A Soft Place for the Spiritually Wary and Weary

A guided journal + gentle peer support group for people unraveling their faith.

Now accepting pre-orders for the beta release of Sanctuw(e)ary
This is a special pre-sale for early supporters.
You’ll receive the journal by August 2025, and the group begins September 2025.

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💭 What is Sanctuw(e)ary?

Sanctuw(e)ary is a soft place to land when the faith you inherited no longer fits.

Whether you’re questioning what you were taught, grieving the loss of spiritual certainty, or longing for a faith that feels more like home—you are not alone.

This journal and optional peer group were created to support people raised in high-control Christian environments (like I was), who are:

• Spiritually burned out
• Questioning but not bitter
• Wary of church, but still seeking God
• Holding grief, shame, anger, and wonder—all at once

This isn’t a theology class.
It’s not a debate.
It’s a gentle space to reflect, rebuild, and rest.

It’s an invitation to reflect deeply, gently, and honestly.

A guided journal + community circle
For those deconstructing high-control religion—and themselves. For those who know what it’s like to feel both in and out of the church at once.

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A gentle, guided space for the curious, the cautious, and the questioning Christian.

Are you rethinking the faith you were raised in? Wondering what you truly believe, or what you want to hold on to?

Do you still believe in God—but not quite the way you used to?

You’re not alone.
And this journey doesn’t have to be walked in silence.

Welcome to a sacred, tender space for deconstructing faith, without destroying yourself.

You are asking hard, holy questions—and that is sacred work.

Maybe you’re exhausted by purity culture. Maybe you’re unsure where faith ends and fear begins.
Maybe you’re trying to find language for grief, anger, or liberation that doesn’t come wrapped in guilt.
Maybe you just want to feel free.

This is your invitation to pause, reflect, and begin again.
With tenderness. With truth. Without shame.

You are not broken. You are not alone.

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✨ What You’ll Get in the Bundle:

📝 The Deconstruction Journal (digital)

A guided, soulful journaling experience with prompts that hold space for:

• Reclaiming your body, voice, and desires
• Naming what you’ve lost—and what you want to rebuild
• Letting go of shame, fear, and false belonging
• Rediscovering God (or not) on your own terms

It includes:

• 40+ guided prompts to explore your relationship with God, church, belief, and doubt
• Spiritual grief exercises
• Lined and unlined pages for reflection, prayer, doodling, and venting
• Affirmations for spiritual reclamation
• Scripture texts for wrestling, reclaiming, or releasing
• Gentle, inclusive design – no cross imagery, no “Christianese”
• Soft, shame-free space to write, question and begin again.

This is not a blank journal or a Bible study. It’s a companion for the in-between.

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💬 Sanctuary Circle (live, limited-time experience; Starts September 2025)

A soft, sacred container for those who want to connect with others on the same journey.

A small, supportive cohort gathering virtually for 4 weeks.

• 4 live Zoom gatherings (recorded if you miss one)
• Gentle facilitation—no pressure to share
• A community rooted in curiosity, rest, restlessness and realness
• Share insights from our journaling journey
• Hold space for questions and reflections
• Affirm each other as we navigate a shifting relationship with faith
• Leave shame and fear at the door
• Option to offer feedback as I refine the experience

You don’t have to figure this out alone.

Enrollment closes August 31, 2025 at 11:59 pm EST.

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Choose Your Path

📝 Journal Only – $35

• Pre-sale of digital journal (PDF)
• Delivered via email by August 2025

🔗 Buy Journal Only

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🌿 Journal + Peer Circle – $125

• Journal + access to live 4-week peer group
• Journal delivered via e-mail by August 2025
• Group starts September 2025 (exact dates and times TBD and decided by group consensus)
• Only 10 spots

🔗 Join Circle + Journal

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💵 Prices are in USD to accommodate my global community. As a Canadian creator, I understand the exchange rate struggle! If you’re in Canada and this feels out of reach, email me for sliding scale or local pricing options.

🎁 This Is For You If:

• You’re deconstructing Christianity, particularly purity culture or high-control religion
• You’ve felt gaslit, silenced, or shamed for asking “too many questions”
• You crave a spiritual space that is inclusive, justice-rooted, and unafraid of nuance
• You want to be seen and supported—but not rushed

You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to come as you are.

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💸 Investment: $125

Includes:

• Digital copy of The Deconstruction Journal
• Access to 4 live Sanctuary Circle gatherings (Zoom)

Spots are limited. This is an intimate circle. Enrollment open until August 31, 2025 at 11:59 pm EST.

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💬 FAQs

What is deconstruction?
Deconstruction is the process of critically examining and re-examining the beliefs, doctrines, and religious practices you were taught — to determine what still serves your spiritual growth, what no longer aligns with your values, and what needs to be reimagined or released. It’s not about abandoning faith.

It involves evaluating the beliefs you were raised with, and deciding what to keep, change, or release. It’s not about walking away from faith. It’s about being honest with your questions and allowing yourself to grow spiritually and intellectually.

It’s about making your faith your own.

Why deconstruct?

Because inherited faith isn’t always liberating.
Because certainty can crush curiosity.
Because many of us were taught to believe without room for grief, nuance, or questioning.
Many of us were handed a version of faith that was deeply meaningful and deeply harmful. Deconstruction lets you name your doubts, grieve losses, and move toward a faith (or philosophy) that aligns with your values, lived experience, and sense of justice.

Deconstruction helps you:

• Move from fear-based to freedom-based belief
• Let go of toxic theology
• Rebuild a spiritual life that feels honest, healthy, and hopeful

What will I get out of this journey?

By the end of this journaling + peer circle experience, you’ll walk away with:

• A downloadable, printable journal with 40+ writing prompts
• Greater clarity on what you do believe — and why
• Language for what you’re experiencing
• A sense of spiritual companionship and affirmation
• Creative tools to express your evolving faith
• A personalized record of your deconstruction journey — to return to again and again
• A space to name questions you’ve been afraid to ask
• Community with others who get it — no shame, no pressure
• Clarity around what you do believe
• Permission to hold nuance
• Practices for grounding yourself in uncertainty
• A blueprint for gentle spiritual rebuilding — if you want to reconstruct

Is this religious?
It’s not dogmatic. This work is grounded in care, curiosity, and choice. It’s safe for the spiritually weary and the spiritually seeking.

Can I join if I’m not Christian anymore?
Yes. You’re welcome if you’re unsure, agnostic, still in church, or long gone. What matters is that you’re unpacking, unlearning, or searching.

Will I have to talk in the live calls?
Nope. You can listen in and engage at your own pace. You’re never expected to overshare.

Will this be offered again?
The journal and circle will likely be sold separately later—but this beta bundle (and this price) won’t return.

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💸 Pricing

Bundle: $125

Just the Journal: $35
Available as a digital download. Instant access.

Join now to lock in your discount and your seat. Space is limited to 10 participants.

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🌱 Who is this for?

This is for the Christian who’s tired, but not done.
This is for the believer who’s skeptical — and the skeptic who’s still curious.
This is for the weary, the wary, and the wondering.

This is for the person who’s:

• Questioning long-held beliefs
• Tired of shame-based sermons
• Reading the Bible with new eyes
• Wondering if they’re still “allowed” to call themselves a Christian
• Feeling lonely in their spiritual evolution
• Craving space to ask questions without fear

→ Christians who are curious, weary, or rethinking what they believe
→ Agnostics and seekers who are still spiritually inclined
→ Exvangelicals and former church-goers
→ Anyone asking, “Can I still have faith if it doesn’t look like theirs?”

Whether you identify as Christian, agnostic-but-open, spiritual-not-religious, or just figuring it out — this is for you.

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🕊️ Ready to Begin? Your Healing Deserves Space.

This isn’t a Bible study.
This isn’t a debate.
This is a spiritual pause. A holy interruption. A chance to take inventory of your beliefs with curiosity, kindness, and community.

If you’re feeling raw, weary, or wobbly—this is your sign to stop holding it all together.

Come rest. Come question. Come home to yourself.

Start where you are. Stay as long as you need. Come as you are.

👉🏾 Join the Beta Cohort Now and get the Sanctuw(e)ary Bundle – $125
or
👉🏾 Get the Journal – $35

💬All prices in USD. Based in Canada? I got you. That’s about $27 CAD for the journal and $100 CAD for the bundle — subject to exchange rates. If the USD pricing makes things tough right now, shoot me a note and we’ll figure it out together.

Enrollment open until August 31, 2025 at 11:59 pm EST.

All sales final. No refunds.